
Giving Tough Feedback Without Making People Angry
When you “speak the truth,” do people get defensive or start blaming and making excuses? According to a Leadership IQ study, 81% of managers have avoided confronting a subordinate about inappropriate behavior, even when a customer or the organization suffered as a result.
See what your leaders will learn
In this 1-hour management training session, participants will learn how to “speak the truth” and give constructive feedback in a way that doesn’t make people defensive or angry. You’ll learn the leadership skills to use:
- 6-step script for delivering tough feedback without making the recipient defensive
- How to delayer your conversations in 4 parts (Facts, Interpretations, Reactions, Ends) and learn which pieces you should and shouldn’t share
- Why you should never use “I statements”
- 4-step script for delivering tough feedback when you have a bad relationship with the recipient
- 1 sentence that opens and deescalates tough conversations
- 4-Question Quiz for testing whether you’re making people defensive with blaming and loaded language
- Why you should never use a “compliment sandwich”
- How to avoid “pleading” and “attacking” in tough conversations































