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Leaders as a Coach: Embracing the Coaching Leadership Style

Discover how the leader-as-coach approach transforms organizations. Explore frameworks like transformational and servant leadership, the GROW model, and real-world case studies (IBM, Microsoft, WD-40) showing how coaching boosts engagement, innovation, retention, and performance.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 22 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16, sb_ad_4 | Read more →

Qualities of Good and Great Leaders

Learn the key traits that define exceptional employees - from leadership skills to emotional intelligence. Comprehensive guide for professional development.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 21 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16, sb_ad_4 | Read more →

Leader Versus Boss: Understanding the Difference in Leadership Style

Leader vs Boss: Explore key differences in leadership styles, their impact on team performance, and practical strategies to become an inspiring leader.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 21 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16 | Read more →

Leadership or Management: A Comprehensive Research Report on Essential Organizational Capabilities

Leadership or management? This comprehensive report synthesizes 200+ studies proving organizations excel by integrating both. Real cases, frameworks included.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 21 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16 | Read more →

Good Employee Attributes: Key Traits and Characteristics of a Great Employee

Research-backed guide to the top employee qualities employers seek. Explore 11 critical attributes from communication to creativity that define workplace excellence

Posted by Mark Murphy on 21 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16 | Read more →

This “Popular” Feedback Technique Is Actually Destroying Trust

Most leaders want to give feedback that's honest and effective. But one of the worst management techniques—still taught in too many leadership workshops—is the COMPLIMENT SANDWICH.

You've seen it before:

"You're doing great work… but you really need to step it up… but I know you'll figure it out."

"You're a great team player… but your reports are always late… but we appreciate your dedication."

It's well-intentioned. Managers think they're softening the blow by cushioning criticism with praise. But in reality, they're doing the opposite: they're training employees to distrust compliments altogether.

Why the Compliment Sandwich Fails

A Leadership IQ study found that 63% of employees prefer negative feedback as candid, unvarnished facts—without sugarcoating.

Here's why: when you give someone a compliment right before criticism, their brain learns that praise is just a setup for bad news.

Over time, the moment employees hear "you're doing great," they brace for the inevitable "but." Compliments stop feeling genuine, and the criticism gets lost in the confusion.

How It Damages Employees' Trust

If you've ever been on the receiving end, you know how it feels. Instead of making criticism easier, the compliment sandwich makes you suspicious of every positive remark:

  • "Are they only saying this because something bad is coming?"
  • "Do they actually think I'm doing well, or is this just a trick?"
  • "Should I ignore the praise and just wait for the criticism?"

The intent is kindness. The impact is distrust. Praise loses meaning, and criticism gets diluted to the point of uselessness.

The Right Way to Give Feedback

The fix is simple: keep compliments and criticism separate.

Pure praise: "You've been a great asset to the team."
Pure constructive criticism: "Your last report contained errors in the data. Let's improve the accuracy for next time."

No "but." No mixed signals. Just honesty.

Why Employees Want Directness

Many managers soften feedback because they fear backlash. But research doesn't support that fear.

Our study found employees who receive candid, straightforward feedback are 40% more engaged and 30% more likely to improve performance.

That's why one of the skills we teach in What Great Managers Do Differently is how to deliver feedback that's direct, motivating, and actually sparks improvement—without gimmicks like the compliment sandwich. Managers walk away with scripts and tools they can start using the very same day.

The Leadership Impact

Great leaders don't rely on gimmicks like the compliment sandwich. They respect employees enough to be clear:

  • Compliments are given on their own, so they actually mean something.
  • Criticism is delivered directly, so it's actually useful.

Because clarity is a form of kindness. And nothing undermines feedback faster than mixing the two.

Bottom line: If you want to be the kind of leader who helps people grow, drop one of the worst management techniques in existence: the compliment sandwich.

And if you want to go deeper into the science of feedback, motivation, and engagement, join me in What Great Managers Do Differently—a 6-week online certificate program that's helped thousands of leaders unlock 100% performance without burnout, drama, or disengagement.

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Posted by Mark Murphy on 19 August, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16 | Read more →

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Parent-Child Dynamics in Transactional Analysis and Leadership

Transactional Analysis (TA) divides personality into three "ego states" -- Parent, Adult, and Child. In TA theory, the Parent ego state represents behaviors and attitudes we learned or copied from parental figures. This state can manifest as a Critical Parent (authoritative, scolding, or controlling) or a Nurturing Parent (caring, protective, and guiding). When someone operates from the Parent state, they often act out of past conditioning, using language of "should/shouldn't" and an authoritative tone.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 29 July, 2025 no_cat, no_recent | Read more →

Mentoring in Leadership Development

Mentoring isn't just a nice-to-have workplace perk—it's a strategic powerhouse for developing leaders at every level. With 84% of Fortune 500 companies implementing formal mentoring programs, the evidence is clear: organizations that invest in mentoring see dramatic results, including 41-47% higher employee retention rates and promotion rates up to 6 times higher for participants. This comprehensive guide reveals the research-backed strategies, proven program designs, and real-world case studies from companies like Sun Microsystems, Randstad, and others who've transformed their leadership pipelines through effective mentoring. Whether you're designing your first mentoring initiative or refining an existing program, discover how to create the trust-based relationships, structured frameworks, and measurable outcomes that turn emerging talent into tomorrow's leaders—and why mentoring remains one of the most cost-effective investments in organizational growth.

Posted by Mark Murphy on 22 July, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_12, sb_ad_13, sb_ad_14, sb_ad_15, sb_ad_16 | Read more →

Excerpt from The AI-Powered Manager

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From Annual Report to Board Presentation in Under 10 Minutes

Watch AI transform complex analysis into executive-ready insights at lightning speed

This is an excerpt from our upcoming course The AI-Powered Manager.

I pretended that I had to present an analysis of Apple's annual report to the board, and I had to identify risks facing Apple's business that the annual report did not mention.

Once I generated an executive report using AI, I then pretended that I needed to generate 5 slides for my board presentation and make them in minutes, not hours.

🎯 Video #1: Creating Board-Ready Slides in Minutes

This first video shows how I generated the slides using AI, and wow, the slides are great and incredibly fast. Watch as complex analysis transforms into polished presentation materials that would normally take hours to create.

📊 Video #2: Generating the Executive Report

Now, how did I make the executive report? This second video shows one example of how I used ChatGPT (switching between models) to write the report. See the exact prompts and techniques that turn raw data into strategic insights.

If you think this is powerful stuff, you should really check out The AI-Powered Manager Course.

It starts next week!

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Posted by Mark Murphy on 08 July, 2025 no_cat, no_recent, sb_ad_10 | Read more →
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